Ceremony · At La Fuente, Valle de Bravo

Niños Santos

The holy children: a medicine of the earth that softens the edges of the everyday, opens feeling and, very often, leaves people feeling held by the natural world.

“I held space with grief that I never felt that I had the permission to grieve before.”

Christie · retreat guest
What is Niños Santos?

A medicine of the earth

Niños Santos, the holy children, rise from the earth after the rains. People across the world have sat with them for a very long time, and they remain among the most widely shared of all sacred medicines. We think of them as a medicine that belongs to everyone, not to any single tradition.

Compared with the vine, the arc is softer and shorter, and the body is rarely sick. The experience is felt as much through the senses and the heart as through visions: colors deepen, music moves through you, feelings arrive and pass, and the natural world can feel alive and very close.

We hold ceremony as a collective prayer, woven with meditation, breath and time on the land. The intention is for you to build your own relationship with the medicine, so you can become the medicine woman or man of your own life.

The medicine held gently in an open palm
A medicine that belongs to everyone
Ways to Work With Us

Example Itineraries

Every ceremony is arranged around you. These examples show how a ceremony fits into time with us, from a single day to a full retreat.

A single ceremony

One day at La Fuente

Morning to evening

  1. 9 AMArrive. Tea, a walk on the land, a quiet meditation.
  2. 10 AMIntention circle, and breath to settle the body.
  3. 11 AMCeremony opens with prayer. Live music, rest, and time in the garden as the medicine unfolds.
  4. 3 PMComing back: fruit, water, journaling and quiet company.
  5. 5 PMIntegration circle and a nourishing meal, then home, or stay the night.
  6. Within 2 weeksA follow-up session with Alexa or Luke.
A private retreat

Three nights at La Fuente

3 to 5 nights · 1 or 2 ceremonies

  1. Day 1Arrive. Garden lunch, the steam bath, an intention conversation.
  2. Day 2Meditation at dawn, ceremony through the day, a quiet evening.
  3. Day 3A guided journey with a smaller dose and one-on-one therapeutic support, or a day of rest.
  4. Day 4Closing session, practices to take home, departure.
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In community

Five days at Espacio Khungi

Group retreat · up to 13 guests

  1. Day 1Group transport from Mexico City, orientation, evening meditation.
  2. Day 2Meditation, yoga or qigong, a drumming circle; ceremony that evening as a collective prayer.
  3. Day 3Guided Journey: a smaller dose within a guided therapeutic process.
  4. Day 4Temazcal, integration circle, and simple rituals to carry home.
  5. Day 5Breakfast and farewells, with an optional homestay at La Fuente.
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Pricing

Pricing depends on the length of your stay, the setting, and how many people are joining, so we quote every ceremony individually. Ask us, and we'll send you options.

Why People Come

What Niños Santos Can Open

People come for many reasons, and the medicine often answers a different question than the one they brought. These are the ones we hear most.

What people bring

  • A heart that closed after loss
  • Anxiety, and a mind that rarely rests
  • Low mood, or a sense of disconnection
  • Wanting to feel more and think less
  • A creative life that has gone grey
  • A meditation or prayer practice to deepen

What people describe after

  • Feeling emotions fully, and letting them pass
  • Connection with nature, with others, with spirit
  • More gentleness toward themselves
  • Clarity about what matters now
  • A brighter, steadier mood in the weeks after
  • A relationship with the medicine to keep at home
The Experience

What It Feels Like

Here is how a ceremony usually unfolds, from the first quiet minutes to the days after.

Coming on

20 to 60 minutes in

Often a light, buzzing or heavy feeling in the body, some yawning, and sometimes mild nausea that passes. Colors and sounds begin to shift.

The heart of it

Hours one to three

Colors deepen, patterns may appear behind closed eyes, and music becomes something you feel. Laughter, tears, tenderness and awe move freely. Time loosens.

Inner work

Eyes closed

Many people meet memories, insights and parts of themselves with surprising kindness. Some passages are challenging, and they ease with breath and support.

Coming back

Hours three to six

The effects soften gradually. People often feel open, warm and quietly reflective. Eating, walking and talking come back easily.

In the body

Physical

Pupils widen, temperature can shift, and coordination is reduced for a few hours. The body is rarely sick, and you're cared for throughout.

The days after

Afterglow

A lighter mood, a sense of connection and a fresh perspective often last days or weeks. This is the time to build the habits you want to keep.

Every ceremony and every person is different. These describe common experiences, not a promise of any outcome.

The Process

How We Work

From the first call to the weeks after, this is the path every guest follows.

  1. 02

    Health Intake

    A full health and medication form, reviewed by a medical doctor. Lithium is a firm no, and some antidepressants change the experience.

  2. 03

    Preparation

    A few days of lighter eating, less screen time, rest and reflection, with no alcohol or recreational substances.

  3. 04

    Ceremony

    A collective prayer opened with meditation and breath, with live music and an experienced, trauma-informed team present throughout.

  4. 05

    Integration

    A closing circle, follow-up sessions with Alexa or Luke, and practices to carry home.

Two small forms of the medicine rising from green moss
Rising from the earth after the rains
A guest meditating in a shaft of morning light at La Fuente
Morning meditation before ceremony
Who Holds the Space

Luke, Alexa & a Circle of Elders

We work with this medicine ourselves, and we are part of a wider circle of elders and traditional facilitators. Depending on which medicine is being served, the right people join us, and we always work with each guest to find the best fit.

Luke DeStefano

Luke DeStefano

Ceremonial Facilitator · Integrative Health Practitioner

Twenty years guiding people on ceremony floors and in somatic work across Vietnam, the Himalayas, Thailand, Costa Rica, Guatemala and southern Mexico. Luke holds the container, the music and the body work: breathwork, QiGong, meditation, Kambo and sacred sound.

  • IAKP-trained Kambo practitioner
  • Wim Hof Method practitioner
  • Dharma Mountain lineage
Alexa

Alexa

MA · Mental Health Counselor

Ten years of clinical practice, with a somatic, attachment-based and trauma-informed approach. Alexa leads the preparation and integration work, before and after every ceremony, so what opens has somewhere to land.

  • M.A. Psychology
  • Somatic & trauma-informed
  • Integration & preparation
Safety

Is This Right for You?

This may be right for you if
  • You want to slow down and feel, not escape
  • You'd like a gentler first ceremony
  • You can rest for the day and the evening after
  • You want a relationship with the medicine to continue at home
Please talk with us first, or wait, if
  • A personal or family history of psychosis, bipolar disorder or schizophrenia
  • Taking lithium (a firm contraindication) or antidepressants. Never stop on your own; talk with us first
  • Heart disease, or high blood pressure that isn't well controlled
  • Pregnancy or breastfeeding
  • A seizure disorder

A wait is never a no forever. Tell us everything, and we'll answer honestly, refer you to a doctor if needed, and help you find the right time.

Questions

Commonly Asked Questions

Is it gentler than the vine?

Usually, yes, in the body: purging is rare, and the arc is shorter. Emotionally it can go just as deep. Many people choose Niños Santos as a first ceremony for this reason.

Will I see things?

Often, especially with eyes closed: colors, patterns, scenes. But the heart of the experience is usually feeling, not seeing.

How is the amount decided?

Together, based on your history, your intention and your health intake. We'd always rather start gently; a smaller amount with guided support can be as meaningful as a large one.

What about microdosing?

For some people, very small amounts taken with intention can support the weeks after ceremony. We teach it as a simple, personal practice and talk through whether it suits you.

Can I come with my partner or friends?

Yes. Couples, families and small groups of friends often sit together. We'll talk about how to hold everyone's needs.

What happens after I go home?

The weeks after a ceremony are when change takes root. You'll have follow-up sessions with Alexa or Luke, our 6 Pathways integration guide, and an open line to us whenever something comes up.

In their own words

Guest Stories

Begin

Begin with a Conversation

When you're ready to take a step, reach out. Every ceremony begins with a free call, and nothing is booked until we both feel it's right.

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Sacred Counsel does not administer, supply, or handle any controlled substances. Ceremonial experiences are provided by independent, third-party facilitators operating under applicable local laws; we hold the preparation, the container, and the integration.

This ceremony is offered for personal and spiritual wellbeing. It is not a medical treatment, and nothing on this page is intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, or to replace the advice of a licensed physician. It has contraindications and is not suitable for everyone.

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